Saturday, August 22, 2009

The Honeymoon Stage

Annyeonghaseyo?---the standard greeting in Korean which literally translates to ”Are you at peace?”

We made it!

Our traveling went quite well! On the way from SanFran to Korea we sat by many other EPIK (English Program in Korea) teachers, which was exciting and comforting. We arrived around 5:00pm, grabbed our luggage, and proceeded to wait in quite a long line to go on our 4 hour bus trip to Jeonju University for our 10 day orientation. Upon arrival to Jeonju University (which is "the place for superstars" as written on all of their buildings!) we were given our room assignments, checked for swine flu, given a thermometer so we can check our temperature everyday (to make sure we don’t get swine flu--ha), and given a goodie bag with treats and 2 manuals for orientation.

We woke up early early the first morning here as we’re getting used to the time difference (it is 14 hours ahead here). Our first breakfast was buffet style and included kimchi (their famous dish consisting of spicy, fermented cabbage), bean sprout salad, French fries, eggs, cream of broccoli soup, croissants, fried spam, cornflakes, and basically liquid sugar with a little bit of coffee mixed in. Needless to say, Aaron loved the spam, I loved the cornflakes, and we walked across the street to a little place that has real coffee. Fantastic!

Our first full day in Korea consisted of a welcoming ceremony with traditional drumming, pensori (a traditional type of opera), and a woman who did a traditional fan dance. This was all followed by a huge welcoming dinner. We ate a variety of foods including kimchi, octopus, shrimp with the head still on it, barbeque ribs and sweet potatoes. It is clear that the university is making an effort to somewhat cater towards our Western taste buds, however, the Korean food is fresh and delicious!

Our second day was filled with medical check-ups and a fascinating class on culture and culture shock. Much like the grief process, there are various steps one goes through when experiencing a new culture (we are currently at the honeymoon stage when everything is still new and exciting). Therefore, in order to make our transition a bit easier, we learned quite a bit about Korean culture. One of the main points made was that Korean culture is based in Confucianism. This philosophy promotes social harmony through putting feelings first and logic second. This is evident in all Korean relationships regardless of context. Also, there is not necessarily an absolute or objective truth. For example, in the US we have set policies and rules that are strictly followed in the business and social world. Here, truth is situational and meaning is indirect. Koreans put what’s best for the individual first rather than the policy. I will only touch on these cultural ideals briefly now as I assume we will have MUCH more to say about them once we are actually teaching and experiencing more of the country.

One of the really neat parts of this orientation is meeting people from all over the world. We’ve met fellow EPIK teachers from England, Scotland, South Africa, New Zealand, Australia, and Canada. Oh, and of course, the US! We are both excited to make new friends from all over the globe.

Today we began our lecture classes. We spent the entire day listening to lectures about teaching strategies and how to work alongside Korean colleagues. Tomorrow is our field trip day to a traditional village and Buddhist temple!

I’ll end with a quote given to us during our culture class. “The world in which you were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you; they are unique manifestations of the human spirit.” –Wade Davis

We appreciate all of your thoughts and support! We are enjoying ourselves and adapting surprisingly well thus far. Love to you all!

-Callie

Monday, August 10, 2009

Finding inspiration...

As many of you may know, handling transition is not a skill at which I excel.  I tend to cry (a lot), meditate on the details, and make lists. On the other hand, Aaron suavely embraces it with open arms, goes with the flow, and tends to worry more about if there will be coffee, cheese, and climbing walls at hand than anything else.  Needless to say, I'm glad we're making this transition together.  :)

While going through my countless books, papers, and relics of the past 24 years of my life, I stumbled upon this poem.  It is extremely appropriate for our transition ahead, and I have been reading it continuously as a means of inspiration.  I thought I would share it in hopes that a part of it may connect to your life.

For a New Beginning

In out-of-the way places of the heart,
Where your thoughts never think to wander,
This beginning has been quietly forming,
Waiting until you were ready to emerge.

For a long time it has watched your desire,
Feeling the emptiness growing inside you,
Noticing how you willed yourself on,
Still unable to leave what you had outgrown.

It watched you play with the deduction of safety, 
And the gray promises that sameness whispered,
Heard the waves of turmoil rise and relent,
Wondered would you always live like this.

Then, the delight when your courage kindled,
And out you stepped onto new ground,
Your eyes young again with energy and dream,
A path of plenitude opening before you.

Though your destination is not yet clear
You can trust the promise of this opening;
Unfurl yourself into the grace of beginning
That is at one with your life's desire.

Awaken your spirit to adventure;
Hold nothing back, learn to find ease in risk;
Soon you will be home to a new rhythm,
For your soul senses the world that awaits you.

-From To Bless the Space Between Us by John O'Donohue

-Callie